WAM (What's on Aaron's Mind)
I have come to realize that propping someone up or always removing their consequences makes a person weaker not stronger!
We as parents we seem to bend over backwards to do what we think is the best for our children by running to their rescue every time they have made a decisions that has lead to a bad consequence..........(Not talking about anything serious..............I'm guilty)
It is my opinion that by always taking away someone's hard times in this life we are not teaching them to stand strong on their own two feet in this life. We are teaching them to look to others for strength or help.
Is tough love really the best way? I say yes!
The person that has had all their hard times removed seem to never grow up!
So if we want a person in our lives to be stronger within themselves we need to think twice before we bail them out.............because life is hard and a person must be strong to be successful on this planet!
What great person on this planet has been known for their weakness? NONE!
They are known for their strength and determination!
GIVE A MAN A FISH YOU WILL FEED HIM/HER FOR A NIGHT................TEACH THEM HOW TO FISH YOU WILL FEED THEM FOR A LIFE TIME!
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